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Changing cities

15 Aug

In July we took a trip to Seattle for a mix of family and business. First family, then business. We spent a few days on the Eastside visiting my family in surprisingly hot summer weather. We had happy hour among blackberry bushes slowly trying to reclaim my mother’s backyard. We watched hummingbirds in her flowers and got chased inside every night by giant mosquitos. The area around my childhood home is still wild and undeveloped, it is deeply green and in such contrast from parched San Francisco right now. We drove a few miles down the road to visit a new-ish local farm in the pasture of a former dairy. As kids and then later as teenagers we’d drive by this dairy on our way to the river or the falls, and had to hold our breath as we passed this stretch of country road. Now the cows are gone, the dairy has been converted to another use and that farm-y smell is long gone.

We spent a few days north of Seattle visiting Intern’s family for a big family reunion and got caught up with all the aunties, cousins, new babies and family friends we haven’t seen or met in a long time. Our usual cooking lessons with Intern’s ammi were brief, the weather was hot and there was a big party to prep for. Our free mornings and evenings were spent digging through old family photo albums, hearing stories, and finally getting a good laugh and a hearty dose of some awkward photos of those uncomfortable teenage years that have until this trip, been hidden away with purpose. Other people’s teenage years are really endearing to look at, I felt so much love for my young lanky Intern and his sweet sister, during the baggy clothes years of the 90s. SO. MUCH. LOVE. I don’t think Intern enjoyed it quite as much as I did.

I spent some time at my mom’s house looking for two Rome books I wanted to bring home, and in the course of searching, found a few old boxes of mine full of high school and college photo albums and journals. I flipped through a couple sort of hastily, it brought up a mixture of nostalgia and uncomfortable embarrassment for me. I was suddenly feeling old but also feeling like all of that feeling was still recent in my mind. Reading old journal entries was just too much for me, I stopped rereading after a few very earnest entries, one about my first time voting in a general election, and another about an apparently very drunken college party… that was SO FUN. Hopefully older, older Kate will appreciate how much younger Kate documented her life in journals, cause right now it just causes me to cringe. I stacked all those journals down at the bottom of the boxes and repacked them again– I think it will be a few more years before I feel ready for a good trip into the past.

We said our goodbyes to family and spent some time in Seattle working and visiting shops before taking the train down to Portland for a few days of the same. Our conversation kept rotating around the same subjects: could we live here? Does this city have what we want and need? The purpose of our trip wasn’t to evaluate Seattle and Portland for possible livability– we have no moving plans, yet we couldn’t stop. Portland has always been the city that we’ve pondered and put in the maybe category. It seems to be some of Seattle, some of San Francisco, and a lot of other things too. Seattle has changed since our last visit, and even more since we left it 5 years ago. Portland has evolved too, as it will continue to do. San Francisco is racing in different directions of course, in good, bad and strange ways. Instead of accepting this, Intern and I have been busy dissecting it, like we are searching for something specific.

Cities aren’t the same once we leave them, and they don’t stay the same, even if we stay put. Our wise Portland friend Kanna reminded us so expertly, “That’s the thing about cities, they change, that is what they are supposed to do”… or something like that. What she said was succinct and so perfectly simple, I haven’t been able to get it out of my mind. We love where we live, and can’t imagine life in the suburbs or the country, because we believe life there moves too slowly. We crave change and movement, but at the same time we’re living in our chosen city and constantly questioning and critiquing the changes around us.  Why is it that we can’t come to terms with the very thing that we love about cities?



Official business

12 Feb

I’m off on official Skill Exchange business this week, Flying to New Mexico for the week for a few lectures, meetings, and a whole lot of interesting conversation and connection. I won’t be blogging much this week, except to share the newest Skill Exchange video later this week!

Happy Very Merry

24 Dec

Happy holidays to all my friends, readers, visitors and anyone else who pops in from time to time. We’re spending starting the day off with coffee and croissants by the fire, before we join our family for an early dinner. We’re in Seattle for the holiday, but will be back in San Francisco soon enough!

And we’re off

20 Dec

We arrived in Seattle this morning for a few days of family, mingling, visiting, gifting, bananagramming, eating … and hopefully relaxing. Our babies have some fine friends visiting to care for all their needs. Gifts are wrapped, and we packed all our wool for chilly Seattle weather. Don’t snow Seattle, Mill Creek, Redmond and Issaquah, please don’t snow. Family, friends, adventure, and a whole lot of eating awaits us in Washington. We’re ready for you!


A list and a box

17 Dec

We’re flying to Seattle at the end of the week to begin our annual holiday traditions with family. We’ll be bouncing back and forth between Intern’s family and my own, but we’re looking forward to good meals on both sides, and maybe, just maybe a sneaky visit with a few Seattle friends. We never seem to have time to see everyone, but we’re hoping to sneak in something special. Fingers crossed (from now until the end of December) so there will be no snow or ice back home.

This weekend was full of holiday parties, a houseguest, Renegade Craft Fair and lots of errands…too many cookies and not enough spinach and greens. This week is going to be busy with travel prep, wrapping up invoices, mailing packages and everything else that comes along with a few days away from home, and away from work. The cats have been very appreciative of some new boxes thanks to Amazon and a few other places. Some boxes are so good in fact, they have to be shared.

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